Have you tried the following as starting points?

Consumer Reports April edition. Your public library typically keeps them.

Also, Consumer Reports may have a specific report comparing the Pilot to similar
non-Honda cars, providing still more detail. I think the April edition will tell
if and when other reports were made on a car in other issues.

Online, www.edmunds.com is a good starting point for pricing and options.

Lotta folks been posting here lately about emailing dealers, getting committed
quotes from them, and essentially getting the dealers into an impersonal,
discreet, price war of sorts. Seems worth a try if one lives where there are a
lot of dealers for a particular make of car.

What is an SUV?

Is that a station wagon to haul kids and groceries on paved roads?  Or
is that a rugged vehicle with off-road capability?

Obviously, most people in this newsgroup will say the Pilot is best but
your best option would be to check recent issues (in the local library) of
major magazines such as MotorTrend and Car and Driver.
I advise you to test drive all of them. If you are over 6 feet tall--make
sure your head does NOT touch roof. A recent poster was very upset with
his Honda Accord because his head touched the roof. An intelligent poster
asked him why he failed to notice this fact when he test drove the
vehicle. Don't make this same mistake regarding this issue and other
issues.