Both SUVs are rated very well.  The Honda has more room in it than the
Highlander and a standard 3rd row seat.  I bought the Honda because I have
kids and needed the extra room.

MK

Just curious, but what is everyone paying  for the Pilot?

thx,

Go to your friendly neighborhood library and look at Consumers Reports.

They are both excellent vehicles. I advise you to test drive both of them
and buy the one you like the best. If you are really tall, buy the one
that has the most head room.

You could also visit the local library and look at past issues of various
car magazines such as "Car and Driver" and "Motor Trend". Check the table
of contents in the front and look for the names of both vehicles. If they
compared the two vehicles in a special test--buy the one that was rated
the highest.

Others've given excellent advice.  Test drive both vehicles and you
should see for yourself which you feel better in.

Also, go check out www.hondapilot.org.  There, you can search for real
life comparisons of both vehicles written by people who've owned both
vehicles.  Good luck!