your problems probably still stem from the loose relay under the seat -
that one under the drivers controls both seats.  i've tried everything
to get mine to stick in - duct tape, solder points.  pretty soon im
just gonna unbolt the seat so i can fully get at it.  for now, whenever
the girlfriend wants to move her seat i just reach under and fiddle
with it until i hear a click, that's the relay kicking on..  good luck
-trip