Actually, no.  The high beams at reduced intensity are the best option
for two reasons.

One:  They are more apt to get the attention of other drivers as they
are fairly bright, even at reduced intensity.  Two:  If you burn one of
them out (due to them being constantly on) you will not lose any of the
more important light functions: signalling turns, or low beams.  Don't
forget, not all cars come equiped with fog lights.  Having fog lights
where I live is completely unnecesary as we seldom get real fog.

I don't get how BMW can be stupid enough to use the high beams as DRLs.
Turn signals, fog lights or low beams at a reduced voltage would have
been much better...

Ulf

That is called "Daytime Running Lights" or DRLs for short.

This link should help you locate the module to remove.
http://www.unofficialbmw.com/e36/electrical/e36_daytime_running_lights.html

i have a 325is 95 and the high beams on on as soon as i turn on my car
.. they are quite a bit dimmer then if i turn on my lights .. i know
there suposed to be like that but i want to know how make them not come
on untill i want them to.