The best option is a set of lights specifically designed to be used as
running lights, i.e., with the appropriate intensity and beam pattern.

Yes, they are fairly bright, and annoyingly distractive in my rear view
mirror.   I don't consider either of those attributes to be a feature.

This is not a justification to use the high beams as running lights, this
is a reason to have a separate set of running lights.

If I remember correctly, GM made the same foolish engineering decision
regarding running lights.  I thought BMW knew better....

Actually, no.  The high beams at reduced intensity are the best option
for two reasons.

One:  They are more apt to get the attention of other drivers as they
are fairly bright, even at reduced intensity.  Two:  If you burn one of
them out (due to them being constantly on) you will not lose any of the
more important light functions: signalling turns, or low beams.  Don't
forget, not all cars come equiped with fog lights.  Having fog lights
where I live is completely unnecesary as we seldom get real fog.

I don't get how BMW can be stupid enough to use the high beams as DRLs.
Turn signals, fog lights or low beams at a reduced voltage would have
been much better...

Ulf

That is called "Daytime Running Lights" or DRLs for short.

This link should help you locate the module to remove.
http://www.unofficialbmw.com/e36/electrical/e36_daytime_running_lights.html

i have a 325is 95 and the high beams on on as soon as i turn on my car
.. they are quite a bit dimmer then if i turn on my lights .. i know
there suposed to be like that but i want to know how make them not come
on untill i want them to.